Tuesday, March 23, 2010

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We all feel pain for one reason or another, whether physical or emotional. The pain of a break-up of a relationship is an emotional pain with which many people have a hard time coping with. This pain is felt because that relationship had such a significant impact on their lives. Relationships that last bring many good times to both of the people in a relationship with one another. They enjoy each others company, they enjoy the time they spend with one another doing whatever. They essentially devote every waking moment to one another in order to keep each other happy because they want to stay with each other. When a relationship ends or hits a rough, they feel pain because the experience with each other is such a big part of their life, and has such a massive impact on it. Think of all of the people who have done something stupid or insane just because of a bad break-up. It is because they love that person and will do anything for them.

3 comments:

  1. I agree with you in that pain is felt when you have truly made a connection with somebody and have a hard time moving on. when we find someone special, we naturally attach ourselves to them against our will.

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  2. I also agree that people feel pain when you are hurt by the one that you love. People do many stupid things out of love when they are hurt or rejected by the ones they love.

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  3. You're right: we all feel pain. But I'm interested in its importance.

    I'm still wondering if, were it not for the pain of loss, love would be all that big a deal? In other words, can you even know you're in love w/o the pain part? This seems to be missing from the modern idea of true love, which holds that love is wonderful (pain free). Shouldn't we go into love with the knowledge that it's the pain we feel that makes it real?

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